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Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Thu Apr 22, 2021 10:22 am
by deacon blues
SALT LAKE CITY (KUTV) — Members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints will no longer face church "disciplinary councils," and will not be "disfellowshipped" or "excommunicated" because of new terminology.

Instead, after changes to the world-wide church's handbook of instructions for the organization's leaders, members with their membership in question will be called to "Church membership councils," according to the information published at the Church's newsroom website. It says:

As before, these councils are an expression of love, hope and concern, designed to help Latter-day Saints through their repentance process.
Instead of being "disfellowshipped," members are given "formal membership restrictions." Excommunication, or being removed from the organization, is labeled a "withdrawal of membership." The action is the most serious spiritual action the organization can take against a person. It removes their membership and renders ordinances they have participated in -- such as baptism or temple ceremonies -- void. The process of regaining membership is also outlined.

The handbook was released Wednesday as a digital-only guide — with some exceptions — that is accessible online and will be updated "regularly," according to its introduction.

Netasha Helfer's membership was "withdrawn" by her leaders. I'm confused. As I've watched the process I've wondered, "What do the new labels for Church Courts mean?" and "What is advanced by poking the the Church/Hornet's Nest with actions or writings that cause the "Strengthening the Members Committee" or individual Stake presidents to convene these courts?"
The rebranding is probably some kind of effort by the Church to de-escalate and/or de-emphasize the publicity surrounding these events. It certainly hasn't clarified anything- at least for me.

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Thu Apr 22, 2021 10:25 am
by jfro18
Yeah this is 100% about how to avoid bad PR for excommunicating someone, but the problem is that the effects are the same with a different word.

I'm not sure what they think they're going to accomplish here because the rest of the world doesn't give a flying #$% about the church's terminology, and whatever coverage Natasha gets will not look much different than when the church called it excommunication.

I'd go to a council if I was ever called just because they'd have to listen to me for an hour, but otherwise yeah... who cares... they have no power over me so why give them the satisfaction.

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Thu Apr 22, 2021 10:58 am
by Red Ryder
I read through her excommunication letter and the last page outlines what “membership withdrawal” looks like.

It says she can’t pay tithing. Is that new? In previous letters I’ve seen it suggested you could still pay tithing. Just no garments, TR, callings or participation in church.

Ok, so I just googled a few letters. Apparently that has been in there for awhile. Sam & Kate’s letters both day no tithes.

I must have been thinking of older ones that said it was ok to still pay.

To answer your post Deacon, I think there are valid reasons to attend a council if your belief system is still in tact. Some go because they believe and are repentant. Some go for publicity. I’m assuming many don’t go.

Personally at this point in my life I wouldn’t bother attending any type of meeting. But I’m not a public dissenter with an agenda so don’t anticipate any type of disciplinary action unless they start to come after half assed Mormon discussion board posters.

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Thu Apr 22, 2021 11:20 am
by nibbler
Add it to the pile of things that were relabeled but otherwise remained the exact same.

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Thu Apr 22, 2021 1:22 pm
by alas
nibbler wrote: Thu Apr 22, 2021 11:20 am Add it to the pile of things that were relabeled but otherwise remained the exact same.
Should we start calling Nelson a prophet, seer, and relabeler?

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Thu Apr 22, 2021 4:42 pm
by Palerider
alas wrote: Thu Apr 22, 2021 1:22 pm
nibbler wrote: Thu Apr 22, 2021 11:20 am Add it to the pile of things that were relabeled but otherwise remained the exact same.
Should we start calling Nelson a prophet, seer, and relabeler?
Procedure steering regulator?

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Thu Apr 22, 2021 4:50 pm
by Palerider
What's that saying, "A rose by any other name would smell just as sweet"?

I think in the case of the church "A turd by any other name would still stink the same." :oops:

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Thu Apr 22, 2021 7:26 pm
by 2bizE
So, instead of paying tithing to a near trillion dollar corporation, Natasha can support charities that really need the funding? What were the downsides of membership withdrawal?

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Thu Apr 22, 2021 8:50 pm
by wtfluff
deacon blues wrote: Thu Apr 22, 2021 10:22 am I'm confused. As I've watched the process I've wondered, "What do the new labels for Church Courts mean?"
Palerider wrote: Thu Apr 22, 2021 4:50 pm What's that saying, "A rose by any other name would smell just as sweet"?
I'm gonna go with: An excommunication by any other name would smell... The Same.

Honestly all we have here is a bunch of tired old coots attempting to maintain the "purity" of their club. A club that is absolutely irrelevant when you take a step back and look at the entirety of humanity. As has been mentioned: Changing names and re-branding changes nothing, and proves the irrelevance.

I hope Natasha can realize how irrelevant the old-coot's club is, put the coots and their club in her rear-view mirror and realize how much better off she is not trying to live up to rules invented by a frontier sex cult that morphed in the the absolute steaming pile that the club is today.

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Thu Apr 22, 2021 11:13 pm
by moksha
alas wrote: Thu Apr 22, 2021 1:22 pm Should we start calling Nelson a prophet, seer, and relabeler?
Yes.

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Fri Apr 23, 2021 5:01 am
by Not Buying It
While the relabeling is pretty disingenuous, the biggest lie in the whole statement is this one right here:
As before, these councils are an expression of love, hope and concern, designed to help Latter-day Saints through their repentance process.
Even as a true blue believer I always regarded the term "Court of Love" cynically. Church courts have never, ever, ever been anything but a control mechanism to keep the members in line and remind them who is boss. It is an expression of cruelty, oppression, and disrespect for the personal lives of members, controlled completely by men and administered completely without input or feedback of any kind from women.

And you know what this tells us? The Church recognizes Church courts are a problem, but can't bring themselves to let go of one of their favorite control mechanisms. So they do a little rebranding and hope it will fool people.

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Fri Apr 23, 2021 8:17 am
by moksha
I could be wrong about this, but I thought at some point in the past the Church had formulated guidelines to protect the rights of those undergoing the destructive procedure of excommunication. Now it feels like Juliann Reynolds explaining how BYU can do anything it wants, "because it's private". No need to make this horrendous occasion seem solemn, fair, and caring because the decision had been made before the court even convened.

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Fri Apr 23, 2021 8:45 am
by alas
If they want to relabel, why not go for something more accurate and just as medieval, oh, like witch hunts.

And speaking of medieval, (or is it medi-evil?) all other churches have stopped the practice, even the Catholic Church which was infamous for excommunicating heretics. And most Christian denominations if they don’t like a member, they drop his/her membership, but they don’t pretend to void his/her baptism. No, what the Mormon church is doing is NOT membership withdrawal, it is excommunication. They are trying to make it sound like any other Christian denomination who only counts as members, those who show up and sit in the pews and want to claim membership. They do not void the baptism of any who leave. The Mormon church, with its exclusive claim of proper authority, still wants the power to void the baptism of those who leave membership. That is the difference between excommunication and membership withdrawal, is voiding the Christian baptism. And what the Mormon church is doing is still excommunication, not name removal. They just want the press to think they are nicer than they are.

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Fri Apr 23, 2021 9:08 am
by Stig
Not Buying It wrote: Fri Apr 23, 2021 5:01 am And you know what this tells us? The Church recognizes Church courts are a problem, but can't bring themselves to let go of one of their favorite control mechanisms. So they do a little rebranding and hope it will fool people.
Does it tell us that the church actually recognizes the courts are a problem, or that the the church has an image problem because of the courts. Very different things, IMO.

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Fri Apr 23, 2021 9:09 am
by jfro18
alas wrote: Fri Apr 23, 2021 8:45 am They just want the press to think they are nicer than they are.
That's really all you need to know about many of the changes the church has made in recent years.

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Fri Apr 23, 2021 9:48 pm
by moksha
alas wrote: Fri Apr 23, 2021 8:45 am They just want the press to think they are nicer than they are.
"It's not us who are to blame, it was those Mormons! We are the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, not those other guys."

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Sat Apr 24, 2021 9:35 am
by deacon blues
moksha wrote: Thu Apr 22, 2021 11:13 pm
alas wrote: Thu Apr 22, 2021 1:22 pm Should we start calling Nelson a prophet, seer, and relabeler?
Yes.
This is certainly the next label the Church should correct. ;) :lol:
I want Alas to speak at my funeral. :D :lol:

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Sat Apr 24, 2021 1:57 pm
by alas
deacon blues wrote: Sat Apr 24, 2021 9:35 am
moksha wrote: Thu Apr 22, 2021 11:13 pm
alas wrote: Thu Apr 22, 2021 1:22 pm Should we start calling Nelson a prophet, seer, and relabeler?
Yes.
This is certainly the next label the Church should correct. ;) :lol:
I want Alas to speak at my funeral. :D :lol:
Hey, the very best thing about this pandemic, is that with ten or so people who have died that normally I would have to attend the funeral for, all the funerals have been limited to immediate family or under 50. I don’t like funerals, and although I have been the major person planning 3 of them, I get out of speaking. See, if I make assignments, then I assign somebody else and I don’t have to do it. My husband and I are both opting out of letting them even have one for us. They can do an Irish wake, or have a party, but no funeral.

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Mon Apr 26, 2021 4:52 am
by Not Buying It
Stig wrote: Fri Apr 23, 2021 9:08 am
Not Buying It wrote: Fri Apr 23, 2021 5:01 am And you know what this tells us? The Church recognizes Church courts are a problem, but can't bring themselves to let go of one of their favorite control mechanisms. So they do a little rebranding and hope it will fool people.
Does it tell us that the church actually recognizes the courts are a problem, or that the the church has an image problem because of the courts. Very different things, IMO.
Well, that's a good point. It means they realize the optics are horrible - as for the courts themselves, they have always loved them as a control mechanism.

But as to the original question - why go? To tape it surreptitiously. Clearly the Church fears this, which is why someone needs to do it. No one should ever walk into a Court of Love without intending to tape it secretly. Both because the Church fears it, and because once they get you behind closed doors without a record of what happens the gloves come off, and you have no evidence of anything they said or did. For Pete's sake, if you are ever in one, record it for your own protection.

Re: Why go to a "Membership Council?"

Posted: Mon Apr 26, 2021 4:53 pm
by Palerider
Not Buying It wrote: Mon Apr 26, 2021 4:52 am No one should ever walk into a Court of Love without intending to tape it secretly. Both because the Church fears it, and because once they get you behind closed doors without a record of what happens the gloves come off, and you have no evidence of anything they said or did. For Pete's sake, if you are ever in one, record it for your own protection.
And what this points out is that the church has in reality less interest in truth, honesty, integrity and accountability than the government, whom they often look down upon.

Civil/Criminal trials are recorded word for word so that (even in Biblical terms) every word can be established. No room for backpedaling witnesses or officials on what someone might have said years later.

I love how the church looks out for it's own interests before anyone else's. Having your cake and eating it too, I think it's called.