Fred Rogers Was Considered Radical
Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2018 2:49 pm
According to this article, which I find very good, but do sort of object to the mild politicization within it.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/act ... 9bc2a5547f
I suppose in a way he was, but only because I think for most of us, for the vast majority of human beings, it is a lifelong struggle to learn to love somebody just the way they are. It takes time, hard lessons, and difficult choices to realize that to cherish somebody does not mean implying you think the person is perfect or can not improve (to paraphrase the article). Almost all people have to endure a vast number of ideas that come from some form of flawed human endeavor (religion, the state, etc) before weeding them out, if they are to see what it truly means to accept somebody as they are. There is too much encapsulated in that idea to explain in words, and although I think the LDS church and other churches do genuinely try and convey the right ideas, I feel like the simple teachings of a guy like Mr Rogers is a step ahead and I didn't even know it.
I wish I could have believed what he said when I was a kid - the message about a person being lovable as they are, but he was really only one voice among many and most didn't echo that statement. Maybe it's time more voices spoke it, because he's gone and it's an important thing to say, possibly the most important message of all. I don't think I'm crazy in postulating that idea, even if it still sounds strange to me after a lifetime of struggling to accept it. And I think it's very important that kids - people, really - hear and believe this very important lesson.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/act ... 9bc2a5547f
I suppose in a way he was, but only because I think for most of us, for the vast majority of human beings, it is a lifelong struggle to learn to love somebody just the way they are. It takes time, hard lessons, and difficult choices to realize that to cherish somebody does not mean implying you think the person is perfect or can not improve (to paraphrase the article). Almost all people have to endure a vast number of ideas that come from some form of flawed human endeavor (religion, the state, etc) before weeding them out, if they are to see what it truly means to accept somebody as they are. There is too much encapsulated in that idea to explain in words, and although I think the LDS church and other churches do genuinely try and convey the right ideas, I feel like the simple teachings of a guy like Mr Rogers is a step ahead and I didn't even know it.
I wish I could have believed what he said when I was a kid - the message about a person being lovable as they are, but he was really only one voice among many and most didn't echo that statement. Maybe it's time more voices spoke it, because he's gone and it's an important thing to say, possibly the most important message of all. I don't think I'm crazy in postulating that idea, even if it still sounds strange to me after a lifetime of struggling to accept it. And I think it's very important that kids - people, really - hear and believe this very important lesson.