Terryl and Marlin, oh my.

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Terryl and Marlin, oh my.

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I just listened to a podcast with Terryl and Marlin talking about having faith in the institutional church. I used to really like Terryl during the
thick of my transition, now I really dont care for him I care for him even less after this interview. The transcript can be fouind here:
https://www.deseretnews.com/article/865 ... usion.html

Here are some gems:
Terryl : I’ve often wondered “Why?” How did we get to the point that Joseph Smith becomes a centerpiece of our faith? Lutherans don’t have to believe in Luther or his story, right? Calvinists don’t have to believe in John Calvin. You don’t have to believe in Wesley’s conversion experience. But it strikes me that it goes back to that moment in Joseph’s own narrative when he says, “I realized that I could not settle the question by an appeal to the Bible.” I’ve read that a hundred times, but it was only when I read it fairly recently that I realized what that sentence represents is a repudiation of the whole Protestant project because all of Protestantism is founded on the notion of sola scriptura: all we need are the scriptures.

That was the moment when Joseph said, “No — look around. Obviously scriptures can’t resolve this problem.” So that’s the moment at which one has to find an alternative source of authority, and that source of authority becomes Joseph’s revelatory experiences through which he receives priesthood and keys. So as I see it, that would be one way of defending the proposition that, as Richard Bushman has said, “For Mormons, our history is our theology.”

On the other hand, as your own experiences so beautifully illustrate and as the Book of Mormon teaches, any sure foundation has to be built on Christ; it has to be built on an experience of the divine, not on a series of historical propositions...

...So where do we find the proper balance? What role should our history have in our spiritual formation and underpinnings to our testimonies?
I think this is a really great question, and a hard one for anyone who is hardcore to answer directly.
Marlin: So when I look at this world, and I ask the question, “Where is Christ? Who has Him? Who is living like Him? Who is being taught His teachings? Where is it facilitated to do what He did?,” I’m led to our Church. That’s where I come: to this Church.

That fact, however it got there, to me, is that if someone looks at the New Testament and is trying to find the Christianity that was practiced there, taught there, and written about there in the book of Acts, he will eventually in a thoughtful way come to Mormonism. He will embrace the Christ of the Restoration and with that, takes those historical facts that brought that all to pass. That’s where I come out in my thinking on this.
So his answer was that there is no balance? If you accept someone, you accept their history. Full stop.

They go on to talk about Christ and how Christ should be more of a centerpiece of your faith. I agree, but when church authorities talk about this it feels now like they are talking about it only because the last 200 years of prophet worship has not turned out very well, so our plan b should be to turn to Christ. This is probably my apostate sensitivity coming through, but thats how it feels to me.
Terryl Given: It’s a cerebral religion.

Elder Jensen: That’s true. It is a cerebral religion.

Terryl Given: This is one thing that Oxford University Press learned: “Mormons read books!” That’s one reason why there’s such a burgeoning of lines of Mormon studies and the presses. This is what one of the senior editors at Oxford told me: she said, “We discovered that Mormons devour their history.”
Wait whaaaaat? Mormons devour their history? What are these guys smoking?
Terryl: It reminds me of a conversation I had with a member of the Church in Stockholm who was struggling with his faith. While we were there — he was hosting us — he was trying to make the decision whether to stay or whether to leave. He had a whole list of grievances and complaints. I remember thinking, “You know, it’s not going to really do to just engage these one by one by one.” Finally I thought to just ask him this question: I said, “Do you believe that in the Restoration, as you experienced it, you have all of the spiritual resources necessary to secure salvation for you and your family?” He said, “Well, yes.” I said, “Well then what’s the problem?”

I think that’s a question that we need to ask ourselves more often. It’s like my son says: “The Church isn’t a Swiss Army knife.” It’s not supposed to have an aspect that fulfills every need in our lives, but it gives us those resources, the indispensable instruments to secure our reunion with the Father and the human society.
Oh Terryl. You are so cute. The problem is that each of those one-by-one points you were unwilling to engage on points to a church that has no unique authority to secure salvation for a person and his family. Why then would you subject yourself to the demands of and objectionable stuff that comes along with that church?
Marlin: I believe that. I believe the best antidote we have for anyone’s faith crisis is to tell the whole story and lay it out the way it happened or the way we think it happened to the best of our knowledge.
Good for you Marlin. You appear to be in the minority of church leadership in that view, and you dont wear the pants in any decision making relationship as it relates to church history. Case in point in the next quote:
Marlin: Nothing happens in this Church that the First Presidency and the Quorum of the Twelve don’t approve of and, in a sense, lead. I was happily ensconced in the third tier of a three-tiered hierarchy. I felt very comfortable there. There was very little that we did during those years that we didn’t advocate up-line and receive approval for with complete knowledge. That’s actually a feeling of great security for a person who was in my circumstance.
So, he even though he believes that the best way is to tell the whole story, it doesnt matter because the people in charge dont!
Terryl: Other things, I still don’t quite get why they matter — like I’ve heard of people who have actually left the Church when they discovered that Joseph used a peep stone in a hat. Somehow I’m trying to understand why it’s more credible or respectable to imagine Joseph wearing a Nephite breastplate with a long arm through giant spectacles — but looking at a seer stone in a hat is somehow a degradation of that idea or something.
Marlin agreed with him. I cannot believe that they do not understand that it is not the peep stone itself that is the issue. It is what the peep stone represents both in terms of history, trust, and credibility. I think this was the most disingenuous part of the whole conversation. It casts people who have problems as dumb and uninformed. Terryl really came down a few notches for me in this interview.
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He had a whole list of grievances and complaints.

See what he's doing here? He could just as easily said, "he had some valid concerns and difficult questions."
Terryl: Other things, I still don’t quite get why they matter — like I’ve heard of people who have actually left the Church when they discovered that Joseph used a peep stone in a hat. Somehow I’m trying to understand why it’s more credible or respectable to imagine Joseph wearing a Nephite breastplate with a long arm through giant spectacles — but looking at a seer stone in a hat is somehow a degradation of that idea or something.
I could agree with him on this if he is willing to concede that both options are equally ridiculous. Of course, the real reason this bothers people is that the hat-rock is the true story and that it was intentionally hidden from them.

I was a fan of Terryl and I was excited that he and Fiona were coming to my stake to answer all of the tough questions, right in the middle of my faith crisis. I had just finished B. H. Roberts' Studies in the Book of Mormon and I really got my hopes up when Terryl addressed that book directly. But then he proceeded to criticize Roberts for being too narrow minded. He showed a map of Mesoamerica and said something like, "If Roberts had just been able to let himself consider that the Book of Mormon took place in a more limited geography than he supposed all of his concerns would have evaporated." What a disappointing and disingenuous cop-out. That was the moment I realized there really weren't any good answers.
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I actually enjoyed listening to this podcast. I guess I'm at a point where I'm curious to see how informed believers keep believing, and see their point of view. Other people are fascinating! I do think there are ways for an informed person to keep believing, and even be a good person, haha. I just don't think those ideas are the best explanation of the evidence.

I was surprised to hear Jensen say that any honest, diligent seeker of truth would eventually be led to Mormonism. That seems a bit narrow minded compared to other things he's said. I still like the guy, from what I've seen and read, though. Interestingly, I was recently talking on reddit with some believing Adventists and also Jehovah's Witnesses. I got similar statements from both groups- they have the truth, and if you are honest, prayerful, and diligently seek truth, you'll be led to Adventism or Jehovah's Witnesses, respectively. I think they are all sincere, and believe they obviously have the real truth. Fun!
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I've never cared for Terryl Givens. He hawks a feel-good, pliable, cafeteria-style Mormonism that doesn't really exist. He tries to convince us our steel handcuffs are just rubber bands. And I can't abide his "Oh don't worry your little head about those pesky historical things, if the Church makes you feel good that is all that matters" arguments.

He's not all that scholarly for a reputed "scholar".
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Not Buying It wrote: Thu Nov 30, 2017 10:52 am I've never cared for Terryl Givens. He hawks a feel-good, pliable, cafeteria-style Mormonism that doesn't really exist. He tries to convince us our steel handcuffs are just rubber bands. And I can't abide his "Oh don't worry your little head about those pesky historical things, if the Church makes you feel good that is all that matters" arguments.

He's not all that scholarly for a reputed "scholar".
Yeah, I enjoyed Jensen a lot more than Givens.
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There was another recent podcast on dialogue where someone interviewed Marlin Jensen. He mentioned being appalled at what happened to the young people he knew in the Ogden valley that stopped attending. He is still a company man with that pharisee like judgement programming despite his being less conservative than his peers.
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I appreciate the report and the analysis.

I still find interviews with nuanced believers irresistible, though I always come away disappointed in my hope that I will be able to somehow adopt elements of their approaches.

At the time I read Givens's By the Hand of Mormon, it was exactly the sort of thing I was looking for. I've intended to read some of his other books, but I can't seem to overcome the feeling that there just wouldn't be much for me in them anymore. I don't know exactly why it's so disappointing to me to recognize that I have that assumption.
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FiveFingerMnemonic wrote: Thu Nov 30, 2017 10:56 am There was another recent podcast on dialogue where someone interviewed Marlin Jensen. He mentioned being appalled at what happened to the young people he knew in the Ogden valley that stopped attending. He is still a company man with that pharisee like judgement programming despite his being less conservative than his peers.
I wonder what he's seen happen? Drugs, alcohol, sex? From his perspective, this is evidence that the church is right. That's another fun parallel with Jehovah's Witnesses. They say apostates will go insane and their lives will implode without Jehovah. Unfortunately, many apostate JWs are unprepared for life outside the organization and its rules, and many do have a lot of trouble. This supports the JW narrative. There are also plenty of people who leave the JW organization and lead positive, productive lives, but the JWs just don't talk about them. Or, if they do, it's along the lines of, "they seem happy, but Satan has them, and they'll be destroyed at Armageddon". Truly happy apostates have no place in their world view.

I wonder what Jensen would think of thoughtful apostates who manage to put together meaningful, productive lives? I say I like the guy, but I don't know we'd be friends, haha. He does seem like a thoughtful, sincere person, even if his worldview might make him do some things I wouldn't approve of.
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BriansThoughtMirror wrote: Thu Nov 30, 2017 10:48 am I was surprised to hear Jensen say that any honest, diligent seeker of truth would eventually be led to Mormonism. That seems a bit narrow minded compared to other things he's said. I still like the guy, from what I've seen and read, though. Interestingly, I was recently talking on reddit with some believing Adventists and also Jehovah's Witnesses. I got similar statements from both groups- they have the truth, and if you are honest, prayerful, and diligently seek truth, you'll be led to Adventism or Jehovah's Witnesses, respectively. I think they are all sincere, and believe they obviously have the real truth. Fun!
That struck me as absurd. Although, at one point in my life I would have parroted that if I had heard it.
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BriansThoughtMirror wrote: Thu Nov 30, 2017 11:11 am
FiveFingerMnemonic wrote: Thu Nov 30, 2017 10:56 am There was another recent podcast on dialogue where someone interviewed Marlin Jensen. He mentioned being appalled at what happened to the young people he knew in the Ogden valley that stopped attending. He is still a company man with that pharisee like judgement programming despite his being less conservative than his peers.
I wonder what he's seen happen? Drugs, alcohol, sex? From his perspective, this is evidence that the church is right. That's another fun parallel with Jehovah's Witnesses. They say apostates will go insane and their lives will implode without Jehovah. Unfortunately, many apostate JWs are unprepared for life outside the organization and its rules, and many do have a lot of trouble. This supports the JW narrative. There are also plenty of people who leave the JW organization and lead positive, productive lives, but the JWs just don't talk about them. Or, if they do, it's along the lines of, "they seem happy, but Satan has them, and they'll be destroyed at Armageddon". Truly happy apostates have no place in their world view.

I wonder what Jensen would think of thoughtful apostates who manage to put together meaningful, productive lives? I say I like the guy, but I don't know we'd be friends, haha. He does seem like a thoughtful, sincere person, even if his worldview might make him do some things I wouldn't approve of.
Didn't say what they got into. Probably drinking diet-coke and watching TV or going outside on Sundays. :D
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Oh Terryl. You are so cute. The problem is that each of those one-by-one points you were unwilling to engage on points to a church that has no unique authority to secure salvation for a person and his family. Why then would you subject yourself to the demands of and objectionable stuff that comes along with that church?
That is absolutely the entire crux of the conversation in a nutshell. That is where a TBM and a NOM part ways, and you have summarized that perfectly, IMO. Thank you for your articulate and concise observations. :) - Wndr.
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“Securing salvation ...”

This is what jumps out at me now. I want to feel connected to God. I believe he knows me and mine, and is waiting for me to know and love him better.

I’m not bashing T.G., but just realizing we don’t want the same things. “Securing salvation” is like my very devout mother’s talk about who’s going to the celestial kingdom. I just don’t think like that now. I don’t think holding up exacting procedures for salvation in the afterlife is the way to grow a church in the 21st century.

I accept that I may be proven wrong.
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Charlotte wrote: Fri Dec 01, 2017 2:47 am This is what jumps out at me now. I want to feel connected to God. I believe he knows me and mine, and is waiting for me to know and love him better.

I’m not bashing T.G., but just realizing we don’t want the same things. “Securing salvation” is like my very devout mother’s talk about who’s going to the celestial kingdom. I just don’t think like that now. I don’t think holding up exacting procedures for salvation in the afterlife is the way to grow a church in the 21st century.
That was really well said. I dont think like that anymore either. And I suppose that I react to people who do.
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Emower wrote: Thu Nov 30, 2017 3:48 pm That struck me as absurd. Although, at one point in my life I would have parroted that if I had heard it.
I agree, it's absurd. But I think Jensen (and the SDAs, and the JWs, and so many others) really believe it!
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Great summary Emower.

I agree, the neo-apologetics, as JD calls them, just hold no water for me. They want to use feelings as the way forward even in the face of the problematic issues, but my feeling is the church is junk. It's boring and the supposed Mormon god is completely untrustworthy and uninteresting, his leaders even more so.

Why should I spend my time in a religion that largely spends its time insisting on its superiority vs. actually helping people become better people?

I'm glad to be done with this nonsense.
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For what it's worth, the article only has three comments so far.
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SunbeltRed wrote: Fri Dec 08, 2017 3:17 am Great summary Emower.

I agree, the neo-apologetics, as JD calls them, just hold no water for me. They want to use feelings as the way forward even in the face of the problematic issues, but my feeling is the church is junk. It's boring and the supposed Mormon god is completely untrustworthy and uninteresting, his leaders even more so.

Why should I spend my time in a religion that largely spends its time insisting on its superiority vs. actually helping people become better people?

I'm glad to be done with this nonsense.
I remember feeling there was something "off" about Joseph Smith as my first real memory about church stuff we were taught in primary. I don't remember what made me feel that way, but I just "knew" he was not the kind of man that a loving God would trust. I was young enough that I had not figured out the the golden plates were translated into Book of Mormon. So, probably four or five. No matter how much I studied church stuff, whenever JS came up, I continued to have that same feeling of him being creepy.

My experience at church was always that I didn't fit in. I was the unpopular kid with cooties in primary, to the same unpopular kid in YW, to just being too different as an intellectual and feminist as an adult.

So, the "it feels good, so it must be true" can just never work with me because nothing about church ever felt good. Ever.
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When you look for it, the tactic they take is very obvious: Answer the question that should have been asked, don't answer what was actually asked.
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