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Life gets tough

Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 11:16 am
by Korihor
But it still goes on

Re: I made a big mistake.

Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 11:28 am
by Linked
Uh oh. Hang in there Kori.

Re: I made a big mistake.

Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 12:22 pm
by 2bizE
You got us hanging Korihor. We need to hear the goods before making a opinion full of judgement and possibly scorn. We support you either way, though.

Re: I made a big mistake.

Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 12:26 pm
by MoPag
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That sucks, but don't stress. You've got this Kori!

Re: I made a big mistake.

Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 12:36 pm
by redjay
As long as jail time is not a possible consequence, it's going to be OK.

Re: I made a big mistake.

Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 1:14 pm
by Korihor
Well, don't hold your breath for details. Just a sucky day.

Paying lots of tuition to the school of hard knocks.

Re: I made a big mistake.

Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 1:23 pm
by blazerb
Hang in there. Good luck.

Re: I made a big mistake.

Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 6:21 pm
by Korihor
Well, all storms must pass, I'm hoping we made it through the eye of the hurricane.

Thanks for the nice words, my NOM family is great.

Re: I made a big mistake.

Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 6:49 pm
by Give It Time
redjay wrote: Wed Oct 11, 2017 12:36 pm As long as jail time is not a possible consequence, it's going to be OK.
This one for the win.

Re: I made a big mistake.

Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 7:18 pm
by didyoumythme
You can't drop a vague post like that and not share details!

Re: I made a big mistake.

Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 7:57 pm
by Korihor
didyoumythme wrote: Wed Oct 11, 2017 7:18 pm You can't drop a vague post like that and not share details!
No details. Just a bad bad day.

Re: I made a big mistake.

Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 8:02 pm
by Hagoth
Damn.

Best of luck pulling out of the nosedive, K!

Re: I made a big mistake.

Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 8:44 pm
by didyoumythme
Korihor wrote: Wed Oct 11, 2017 7:57 pm
didyoumythme wrote: Wed Oct 11, 2017 7:18 pm You can't drop a vague post like that and not share details!
No details. Just a bad bad day.
:?:

Re: I made a big mistake.

Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 9:34 pm
by Give It Time
One day I was walking into a store and my foot caught on that bit of curve that goes from regular sidewalk to wheel chair access. I stumbled a couple of steps, but the forward momentum was too great and I fell forward into a face. plant.

My first thought was, Ow!

My second thought was how that fall was probably caught on security camera.

My third thought was, I'll bet that looked funny.

There are many ways to nosedive and with time, pain diminishes and our perspective changes.

Things'll get better.

Re: I made a big mistake.

Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2017 8:05 pm
by MalcolmVillager
I had one of those a few weeks back. It felt like The end of my job and likely my small town has no other opportunities in my niche. I stared relocation in the face. It sucked that it may not be on my ideal terms or timeline. It was never resolved but basically just went away.

Sounds similar to your situation. Glad it passed for you Kori!

Re: I made a big mistake.

Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2017 9:55 pm
by Anon70
MalcolmVillager wrote: Thu Oct 12, 2017 8:05 pm I had one of those a few weeks back. It felt like The end of my job and likely my small town has no other opportunities in my niche. I stared relocation in the face. It sucked that it may not be on my ideal terms or timeline. It was never resolved but basically just went away.

Sounds similar to your situation. Glad it passed for you Kori!
I'm there right now too. I think it's basically going away but I'm not sure. I hate this.

Re: I made a big mistake.

Posted: Sun Oct 15, 2017 1:52 pm
by Newme
Nobody’s perfect.

I think self-compassion is more practical than self-esteem.