Boy Howdy!
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Boy Howdy!
Hello! Long time lurker first time poster.
Navigating a mixed faith marriage through a faith transition that came to a head a year or so ago.
I have 3 kids. Married a couple decades. Spouseman is TBM and we both have quite an illustrious heritage in the church. I'm a therapist and an adjunct professor of psychology.
I vascillate a few times a week between wanting to stay engaged with my community and hoping spouseman will join me...
Navigating a mixed faith marriage through a faith transition that came to a head a year or so ago.
I have 3 kids. Married a couple decades. Spouseman is TBM and we both have quite an illustrious heritage in the church. I'm a therapist and an adjunct professor of psychology.
I vascillate a few times a week between wanting to stay engaged with my community and hoping spouseman will join me...
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Welcome.
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We are glad you found us. Has your background in psychology affected your understanding of belief in the LDS church?
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Excellent. We need your professional academic expertise around here.
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Yes, definitely. I work with experimental analysis of behavior quite a bit and it's a hobby of mine. My MIL is so proud when my little one gets choked up with the spirit, but I can quickly diagram the reinforcement contingencies evoking that behavior.
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Why, thank you!FiveFingerMnemonic wrote: ↑Fri Apr 21, 2017 8:31 am Excellent. We need your professional academic expertise around here.
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It's such an obvious pattern too. I hate to say this but when I was a Sunday school teacher for a class of teenagers, I would ramp up the lesson to induce the spiritual feelings and then suddenly take a left turn sideways and pull it all back by cracking a joke or telling an unexpected ending without the dramatic testimony and reassurance. The kids ate it up and the other adult team teacher would try to end with testimony.Thoughtful wrote: ↑Fri Apr 21, 2017 9:07 amYes, definitely. I work with experimental analysis of behavior quite a bit and it's a hobby of mine. My MIL is so proud when my little one gets choked up with the spirit, but I can quickly diagram the reinforcement contingencies evoking that behavior.
You should start a post and walk us through the diagram.
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Oh yes. This sounds fascinating. And how does your background in psychology influence how you negotiate your marriage relationship during your faith transition?Red Ryder wrote: ↑Fri Apr 21, 2017 10:46 amYou should start a post and walk us through the diagram.Thoughtful wrote: ↑Fri Apr 21, 2017 9:07 amYes, definitely. I work with experimental analysis of behavior quite a bit and it's a hobby of mine. My MIL is so proud when my little one gets choked up with the spirit, but I can quickly diagram the reinforcement contingencies evoking that behavior.
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If you could post regarding this, Thoughtful, it would really be interesting to read. Maybe post about this in the "Mixed Faith Relationships" forum here?
And yes.....Welcome, Welcome.....you'll be a great addition to the board and I look forward to reading more from you!
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Reading can severely damage your ignorance.
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Welcome! Nice to have a mental health professional on board. I look forward to hearing more of your story.
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Welcome to the ward family!!
We have Alas, and she is amazingly wonderful! But let's face it, we could probably use all the help we can get
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believing in old men’s lies...--Ezra Pound
believing in old men’s lies...--Ezra Pound
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What they said, plus my own warm welcome. Hope to hear from you often.
When an honest man discovers he is mistaken, he will either cease to be mistaken or cease to be honest. -anon
The belief that there is only one truth, and that oneself is in possession of it, is the root of all evil in the world. -Max Born
The belief that there is only one truth, and that oneself is in possession of it, is the root of all evil in the world. -Max Born