Re: Brushes with "the other side"?
Posted: Mon Nov 27, 2017 2:24 pm
OK, now the discussion is getting more serious, so maybe I will share more.
I am ...a skeptical believer, or something. There is something going on that science cannot explain, * yet*. But some things can be explained as things like sleep paralysis, and some things can be explained as money making frauds, and I would say that some things can be explained as "if we want it badly enough" then we somehow trigger something. Is it that we shift reality? Or see things that are not there? Trigger a hallucination? And some things just do not explain.
My DH is an electrical engineer, so he is into the nerdy science stuff like when you want to observe light as a wave then it acts like a wave, he also has seen the spirits hovering around someone close to death. He believes we can shift reality, as in changing the behavior of light. He says that it makes sense that electricity will behave the same way as the light we change by observing it, because it functions as a wave or a particle, so according to physical laws, if light does it, then electricity does it. He explained some stuff that goes zipping over my head about how we can polarize light and electricity and what if it is a matter of polarizing the energy from these other planes so that we can see it?
My MIL swears that she had dead relatives who visited when she was in a lot of pain or close to death, but then she was just nuts, so there is that.
I have had an out of body experience, and so far science has no explanation that fits the experience.
I have close friends with near death experiences, and I believe that something is going on that science is not explaning. It is not "the drying brain in the process of shutting down". And if NDE are in the realm of "the dying brain" then why the similarities across cultures and even thousands of years, because there is "the Tibetian Book of the Dead" that describes NDE thousands of years ago, and they are just like modern ones. If it "the dying brain" then it would be more like a dream or hallucination and people describe it as very different. So, science does not yet have an explanation that fits the data.
But do I really believe that my husband saw spirits? Um, love him to pieces, but no.
So, my conclusion is that I am waiting for further light and knowledge. Something, or multiple somethings, is going on with some of this "woooo woooo" stuff, and science has not explained it yet in some cases, and some cases are wishful thinking. When someone is near death, either us or a loved one, it is very human to want spirits to be real. So our brain produces the vision. My dad was near death once and all he saw were lizards crawling on the ceiling. My mother had a BAD relationship with my father and once when she was near death, she saw him standing behind the doctors. She hardly wished to see him again. But the funny thing was, that I knew he was there. When she actually died, I was the only one there, and there were no hovering visitors. If it is real, why is it not consistent?
And why do I believe there is something to NDE & OBE, and think seeing dead loved ones is fishy, when I have experienced knowing that they are there?
I am ...a skeptical believer, or something. There is something going on that science cannot explain, * yet*. But some things can be explained as things like sleep paralysis, and some things can be explained as money making frauds, and I would say that some things can be explained as "if we want it badly enough" then we somehow trigger something. Is it that we shift reality? Or see things that are not there? Trigger a hallucination? And some things just do not explain.
My DH is an electrical engineer, so he is into the nerdy science stuff like when you want to observe light as a wave then it acts like a wave, he also has seen the spirits hovering around someone close to death. He believes we can shift reality, as in changing the behavior of light. He says that it makes sense that electricity will behave the same way as the light we change by observing it, because it functions as a wave or a particle, so according to physical laws, if light does it, then electricity does it. He explained some stuff that goes zipping over my head about how we can polarize light and electricity and what if it is a matter of polarizing the energy from these other planes so that we can see it?
My MIL swears that she had dead relatives who visited when she was in a lot of pain or close to death, but then she was just nuts, so there is that.
I have had an out of body experience, and so far science has no explanation that fits the experience.
I have close friends with near death experiences, and I believe that something is going on that science is not explaning. It is not "the drying brain in the process of shutting down". And if NDE are in the realm of "the dying brain" then why the similarities across cultures and even thousands of years, because there is "the Tibetian Book of the Dead" that describes NDE thousands of years ago, and they are just like modern ones. If it "the dying brain" then it would be more like a dream or hallucination and people describe it as very different. So, science does not yet have an explanation that fits the data.
But do I really believe that my husband saw spirits? Um, love him to pieces, but no.
So, my conclusion is that I am waiting for further light and knowledge. Something, or multiple somethings, is going on with some of this "woooo woooo" stuff, and science has not explained it yet in some cases, and some cases are wishful thinking. When someone is near death, either us or a loved one, it is very human to want spirits to be real. So our brain produces the vision. My dad was near death once and all he saw were lizards crawling on the ceiling. My mother had a BAD relationship with my father and once when she was near death, she saw him standing behind the doctors. She hardly wished to see him again. But the funny thing was, that I knew he was there. When she actually died, I was the only one there, and there were no hovering visitors. If it is real, why is it not consistent?
And why do I believe there is something to NDE & OBE, and think seeing dead loved ones is fishy, when I have experienced knowing that they are there?