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Re: Get Your Thoughts and Probing Questions Out of Our Daughters' Panties
Posted: Fri Jul 21, 2017 9:39 pm
by Random
Brent wrote: ↑Sun Jul 09, 2017 3:49 pmSend the link to "The Daily Mail"...they love to report on threads on Reddit and such...
Now, that's an idea.
Re: Get Your Thoughts and Probing Questions Out of Our Daughters' Panties
Posted: Fri Jul 21, 2017 9:42 pm
by Random
2bizE wrote: ↑Sun Jul 09, 2017 4:04 pm
Worthiness interviews are a made up process of.Mormonism. it is not required nor necessary. It only places our children at risk. Too many bad things happen behind closed doors. Here's a recent example:
https://www.ksl.com/?sid=44935230&nid=148
Holy Cow!
moksha wrote: ↑Sun Jul 09, 2017 10:25 pm
You are underestimating the bishops. They studied long and hard to be ordained to the priesthood. They took their vows, one of which was celibacy and the other was chastity!!!
Wait, I have been handed a note. Seems I was thinking about the bishops of another group. Well, at least that group who studied long and took those vows so they would never be tempted to probe where they were not supposed to probe.
Wait, I have been handed another note to say even those with better training are susceptible to sexual misbehavior. Well, that behavior must be caused by the Adversary.
Wait, I have been handed another note. Apparently, sexual behavior is built into the complex animal life on this planet as an instinctual urge. The note ended with the cryptic phrase, "if it can happen it will happen". That sounded both cautionary and cynical at the same time. Darn you, you note passers!
Moksha, you are hilarious!
Re: Get Your Thoughts and Probing Questions Out of Our Daughters' Panties
Posted: Fri Jul 21, 2017 9:43 pm
by Random
StarbucksMom wrote: ↑Mon Jul 10, 2017 5:42 pm
So I get what you are all saying about 2 deep leadership. But honestly, I don't think that it would help solve the issue of creepy, inappropriate bishop interviews. I mean, wouldn't it be even worse for 2 GROWN MEN to sit with 1 TWELVE YEAR OLD GIRL asking her about whether or not she touches her vagina?
Barf.
Better to stop probing. Period.
Re: Get Your Thoughts and Probing Questions Out of Our Daughters' Panties
Posted: Fri Jul 21, 2017 9:47 pm
by Random
I am reminded of what my son told me several years ago. He had passed an interview to be promoted to the next level of aaronic priesthood. I asked him if the bishop knew he was on probation for underage drinking. His reply was, "My personal life is none of their business." Even though I was still somewhat tbm at the time, his answer impressed me immensely, and gave me a freedom of thought I had not known was possible.
Re: Get Your Thoughts and Probing Questions Out of Our Daughters' Panties
Posted: Sat Jul 22, 2017 5:06 pm
by Thoughtful
Another article about this on Religion News:
http://religionnews.com/2017/07/20/morm ... ual-abuse/
This all makes the church look completely nuts.
People defending it look like they give benefit of the doubt to a 40 year old man over a minor child.
Re: Get Your Thoughts and Probing Questions Out of Our Daughters' Panties
Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2017 6:56 am
by Emower
Random wrote: ↑Fri Jul 21, 2017 9:47 pm
I am reminded of what my son told me several years ago. He had passed an interview to be promoted to the next level of aaronic priesthood. I asked him if the bishop knew he was on probation for underage drinking. His reply was, "My personal life is none of their business." Even though I was still somewhat tbm at the time, his answer impressed me immensely, and gave me a freedom of thought I had not known was possible.
That is awesome that he could do that even with you as a sort of tbm parent. Mad props.
Re: Get Your Thoughts and Probing Questions Out of Our Daughters' Panties
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 9:07 pm
by Random
He has always been one to do what he wants no matter the consequences. Made it difficult, even painful at times, to raise him, but I had no idea that he was capable of separating the Church from his personal life like that. I wish I could have done that as a teenager wracked with guilt over what I now see as minor.
(edited to remove unneeded quotes)
Re: Get Your Thoughts and Probing Questions Out of Our Daughters' Panties
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 9:08 pm
by Random
Holy Cow! 20 counts of forcible sexual abuse?