Good points from all. Thank you for sharing. I like Anon70's point that what is right for one might not be for another. Just let it be that couples choice.
Im also interested to ask about your children's thoughts.
I don't see us winning the Mormon grandchild derby.
In hindsight, two would have been fine.
Re: In hindsight, two would have been fine.
Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and right doing, there is a field. I'll meet you there.
Rumi
Rumi