I choose love, full stop.

[Jeffret]

Newme's whole post is a mess of inaccurate, incorrect, and biased information. I was going to refrain from replying but I decided to do the respectful thing of paying attention to it and it's such a mess. In case anyone else is interested in the problems here are some of my notes.

2) The anus is not designed for sex but for poop to exit.

Completely baseless and wrong. The anus was never designed. It evolved. And as always this comment completely ignores women. And straight anal sex, which certainly has a much larger occurrence.

Child of lesbian couple speaks out against gay marriage
http://www.dennyburk.com/child-of-lesbi ... -marriage/

Robert Oscar Lopez is one seriously messed up dude. It's hard to tell just how he got to that point. He would probably be much better off if he abandoned his religious beliefs and admitted he's gay. Among his oddities he writes terrible, explicit gay novels.

"Why Children Need Both A Mother And A Father"
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/social ... -need-both

Broken link. Comes from Focus on the Family, which doesn't require any further explanation.

"Why Children Need a Male and Female Parent” - Glenn T. Stanton
http://www.wordfoundations.com/wp-conte ... tanton.pdf

Glenn Stanton is Director for Family Formation Studies, Focus on the Family.

“Every child need a mum” – A gay man speaks out against gay marriage"
“I don’t want to see children being engineered for same-sex couples where there is either a mom missing or a dad missing,” Mainwaring explained. “Somebody needs to stand up for the rights and needs of children in an age when the selfishness of adults seems to be trumping those rights.”
https://ynaija.com/every-child-need-a-m ... -marriage/

Doug Mainwaring is another prominent anti-gay (such as it is) attacking everyone else for his problems, which would be much improved if he'd abandon his religious beliefs and stop hating himself.

Kids of Gay Parents More Likely to Suffer Mental Problems, Study Shows
https://www.charismanews.com/us/48331-k ... tudy-shows
"Researchers found that 17 percent of children with same-sex parents had serious emotional problems compared to 7 percent of children with a mom and dad."

Charisma News, Catholic University, and The Ruth Institute are clear indications of the prejudices here. The actual study doesn't disappoint our expectations as it is deeply flawed.

Study: Children of Parents in Same-Sex Relationships Face Greater Risks
The results reveal numerous, consistent differences, especially between the children of women who have had a lesbian relationship and those with still-married (heterosexual) biological parents. The results are typically robust in multivariate contexts as well, suggesting far greater diversity in lesbian-parent household experiences than convenience-sample studies of lesbian families have revealed.
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/a ... 9X12000610

"According to data from the New Family Structures Study, led by Mark Regnerus at the University of Texas at Austin, children raised by homosexual parents are dramatically more likely than peers raised by married heterosexual parents to suffer from a host of social problems. Among them are strong tendencies, as adults, to exhibit poor impulse control; suffer from depression and thoughts of suicide; need mental health therapy; identify themselves as homosexual; choose cohabitation; be unfaithful to partners; contract sexually transmitted diseases; be sexually molested; have lower income levels; drink to get drunk; and smoke tobacco and marijuana."

Mark Regnerus's New Family Structures Study was so bad in every imaginable way it led to multiple rebuttals. The data was useless and could in no way support Regnerus's conclusions. A federal judge ruled it was "not credible".

Adults Raised by Gay Couples Speak Out Against Gay ‘Marriage’ in Federal Court
“I wasn’t surrounded by average heterosexual couples,” she says in her court brief.  “Dad’s partners slept and ate in our home, and they took me along to meeting places in the LGBT communities. I was exposed to overt sexual activities like sodomy, nudity, pornography, group sex, sadomasochism and the ilk.”
https://www.cnsnews.com/news/article/la ... eral-court

I wondered when B.N. Klein (by whatever alias) would get dragged into this. It was inevitable. Her loathing for herself and her parents wasn't really caused by her dad being gay.


I've run out of interest on documenting all those things, but that should be sufficient.


In contrast to the terrible studies of Regnerus, Sullins, and others, good, solid, well-designed studies show that lesbian couples make for the best parents. (Actually, the studies do show better results for lesbian couples, but when other complicating factors are eliminated, the results for gay, lesbian, and straight couples are all equivalent within the error range of the studies.)

[Jeffret]

OK, a couple more caught my attention while I'm waiting for something else.

Michael Glatze, ex homosexual and ex-“gay rights” leader said, “Homosexuality is death and I choose life.” Those practicing homosexuality - especially men - have much higher rates of STDS, mental illness, AIDS and other health complications associated with attempting to misuse their anatomy.

From Wikipedia: "Glatze turned toward Christianity after a health scare due to palpitations.[1] Worried that he was affected by the same heart condition which claimed his father's life, he sought medical help. The palpitations turned out to be due to anemia, caused by celiac disease.[8] He joined The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in the first half of 2007[9] but left the church shortly thereafter.[1]" The (brief) connection to the Church caught my attention.

1. Homosexuality is not ever truly sex but involves fetishes, because sex involves the sexual organs of each, and homosexuality must resort to subsitutes... fetishes. (Fetish: any object or nongenital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation. ) Anal sex is such a fetish. Some fetishes cause no harm, but anal sex can cause anal fissures, anal cancer, colon rupture and bacterial infections.

It's hard to calculate just how many ways this is wrong. I won't bother trying to enumerate them all -- many of them have been well-described previously. One item, though, I don't recall seeing before.

By this definition, all human sex (or at least any decent sex) is fetish. Why The Brain Is Our Most Important Sex Organ. Or, our skin as our biggest sex organ. Or maybe some of us straights have even used our lips. Or tongue.