You're asking a few different questions that are mostly only tangentially related to what I was trying to say. I figured we would get into this area and perhaps I caused it by by my choice of title and opening paragraph but I knew the risks.LaMachina wrote: ↑Tue Feb 27, 2018 1:57 pm So I submit to the OP again, what exactly is unchristlike about Mormonisms approach? Besides maybe some particular examples of bishops and SP's being a-holes, what about the process is unchristlike? What about it disqualifies mormons from claiming Jesus cuz I still don't see it.
Let me see if I can clarify.
I don't think I used the term Christ-like. Or unChrist-like. I purposefully tried to avoid even using the term Christ as I think that frames it differently. I think that gets away from what I was trying to say.
I had forgotten about Stephen Robinson's book, "Believing Christ", which some people mentioned. His ideas are related to what I was trying to say. From the description, "We must not only believe in Christ but also believe him believe that he has the power to exalt us, that he can do what he claims." I wanted to focus more on the message of Jesus than the title.
Ultimately, as I alluded to in another reply, Jesus is pretty much irrelevant to my point and certainly The Christ is unnecessary. At the roots, what I'm talking about are the ideas of repentance, forgiveness, or a generalized notion of atonement. Both self-forgiveness and how the institution handles it. These are also the roots of what Robinson discusses. These ideas are actually more due to Paul than Jesus, though they are far, far from original to Christianity (or Paulinity).
At the core, what I'm really talking about is whether Mormons believe in repentance and forgiveness. Whether they don't solely accept them as intellectual concepts or theological abstracts but whether they actually behave as if they thoroughly believe them. Are they motivating concepts in their lives? I find that they don't.
It's certainly a bit of a judgement, though I'm not doing it for the purpose of denigrating Mormons. It's certainly not intended to compare them to other religions and grade them on a scale. It's for the purpose of understanding the Mormon experience and understanding the things that impacted my life growing up.
Some of the examples I've found the most compelling as I've presented this previously were the ones that alas pointed out, the way that girls are taught about virtue. They are taught that virtue almost solely equates with sexual virginity. The object lessons of the nail in the board, the chewed gum, or the licked cupcake totally deny the Atonement. If we actually believed Jesus (or Paul) we would never teach these and we would instantly recognize them for the travesties that they are. At best they are Old Testament theology and totally at odds with the Gospel ("Good News") of Jesus.
In reading the stories collected by Sam Young, though, I've detected a couple of other themes that demonstrate a lack of motivating belief. One that I hadn't mentioned yet is the number of women who recount that their bishops told them that now that they were no longer sexual virgins (in some unreliable fashion, according to the bishop) that they were essentially forever and eternally damned. They were told that no decent man would ever want them, that they could never be a good mother, and that they would never find a good father to their children. In other words, they are treated as if they cannot attain forgiveness in this world or the world to come. This demonstrates a clear lack of substantive belief in repentance. Another theme is the constant insistence of leaders who insist that matter what the person has done before, no matter the level of repentance, that this current leader must be divulged full details on all prior misdeeds. In contrast, in a U.S. court of law, a person's prior misdeeds has no relevance to their guilt on the current allegation. To a Mormon leader, though, no prior repentance can have any motivating force. Which, by extension, means that this repentance instance is of no consequence once the next leader comes along. If they actually demonstrated a motivating belief in repentance, they might at most inquire briefly about previous confessions, but they certainly wouldn't need all the details of how many fingers he inserted into her when and where and what she was wearing. They would accept previous pronouncements of forgiveness, at least to some degree, and not insist that all previous efforts were null and void and by extension this current one is also. Further, they would treat child molestation and sexual assault victims differently and not insist that they were irreparably harmed and incapable of achieving forgiveness.
One could argue, as many TBMs certainly have, that these are just isolated instances. The reality is that they bring to light what has long been hidden. These approaches are protected by the hierarchy. The system inculcates and propagates them. The leaders frequently behave as if the Atonement is meaningless. They demand submission but don't believe in forgiveness or repentance. Upper church leaders make no attempt to correct these, if they considered them misdeeds in ministry, or to teach them faith in Atonement.