RubinHighlander wrote: ↑Thu Mar 23, 2017 10:03 pmThis is a very discouraging but interesting trend in the US - This study shows the middle-aged white people mortality rate is in decline. This is a stark contrast in the US to the rest of the world and other races.
It is sad, I've known several people who died way before their life expectancy.
Heart (cardiovascular) disease is the #1 cause of death in the US. It's a bit of a taboo subject and who knows maybe that adds to the problem.
What would be interesting to me is to know what percentage of the group were active in a religion and see if there were any difference in the statistics there. In other words, does a religious belief give a person a more meaningful and fulfilling life or does it put more pressure on them and more stress of guilt and fear when they have economic challenges.
It is interesting to consider. My guess would be that it depends - if someone's able to take the best & leave the rest, it can be beneficial, but if not, it could be destructive. A study sought to discover what, if any, religious influence had on physical healing. Of 3 groups those who did poorest were those excessively involved and those not involved at all. Those who did best were those moderately involved. There's wisdom in the original NOM middle way of moderation in all things including religion!
A similar study found something similar - that pastors and the like tended to suffer from stress & mental illness at much higher rates than others.
Personally, I'm trying to take the best & leave the rest of the church, to develop my self-esteem independent what others think or say of me, and to reach out to others when I feel inspired to - keep some forms of social support (like here).
Glad I never did; even though I walked away from that corp, having paid hundreds of thousands of $$ in tithing with nothing in return and very little in retirement funds. But I guess I helped educate a bunch of upper class white kids for the COB, so at least they won't be at risk for suicide.
You did what you thought was right at the time - so in that sense, you can feel good about your integrity. Now, you see more clearly, and now you've responded so that's a good thing too.
I had talked to someone in our extended family about some concerns I had with the church and money and how tithes were taken & spent. I felt morally obligated to tell them because they were going through some tough financial times - lost job no income. I went over to their house and out on the counter to be sure I could see it was a check for thousands of dollars to the church for tithing. At that point, I realized that I did my part morally, it was now up to them to open their eyes about it.
Utah (being highly lds) is one of the highest states of bankruptcies (#5). Sad, but fact. No doubt, financial stress causes more problems and a sense of despair.
I wish members would realize the ACTUAL SCRIPTURAL law of tithing and how the lds church has corrupted it.
Tithing is supposed to be on increase, NOT income...
IE: 2 men earn same money.
1 man lives with his parents who pay all his bills so all his income is increase.
2nd man is sole provider of a family of 7 and after paying bills, has no increase left.
The church wrongly demands the same amount of tithing from each man - which increases poverty & burdens rather than lessening them.
Also, tithes are supposed to be given to the poor - according to Deut. 14:28-29.
Yet, Oaks admitted that not a penny of tithes goes to the poor and that members need to pay extra for charity.
Again, it's evil how they're handling money - also with no transparency - yet they demand "tithing settlements" and use priestcraft to manipulate and charge for "temple worthiness" in order to attend family weddings etc. Evil.
There are good things about the church, don't get me wrong, but financial dealings is not one of them.