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by Notchet
Sat Mar 10, 2018 10:48 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: I want to leave this Mormon bubble and travel the world. Would love some advice and support
Replies: 24
Views: 30324

Re: I want to leave this Mormon bubble and travel the world. Would love some advice and support

My DD lasted 8 months in the Peace Corps. She came home early after being physically assaulted 3 separate times by the men in her small African village. The PC is not a safe way to go for young women. Once trained you will live alone in your assigned areas. She loved doing the service, but was quite ...
by Notchet
Mon Jul 24, 2017 6:34 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Turning in TR
Replies: 33
Views: 21975

Re: Turning in TR

I've done this (giving back a TR) before. In all honesty, it felt GREAT to say (to the SP1C)-- I don't want this. This is basically the reason I'm thinking of doing it. Turned mine in a few years ago. Made an appointment with the SP and said, "I don't need or want this anymore". His immediate ...
by Notchet
Mon Apr 17, 2017 8:30 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Easter and Celebration
Replies: 44
Views: 29698

Re: Easter and Celebration

....the instructor even mentioned that the cross has always felt kind of taboo growing up, and if he ever saw a person wearing a cross, it was akin to somebody that smoked or drank coffee, you know those "bad" people. I never gave it much thought, but I think he is right, the cross has always been ...
by Notchet
Sun Apr 16, 2017 8:01 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Easter and Celebration
Replies: 44
Views: 29698

Re: Easter and Celebration

Mormons don’t understand Easter. Since they don’t practice the Christian tradition of special worship throughout Holy Week, they insist upon wrapping up all the significant events of Holy Week into one service. We quit attending LDS Easter SMs a few years ago. We had grown tired of their Easter tal ...
by Notchet
Sun Apr 02, 2017 8:28 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: You Can Keep Your Choir
Replies: 14
Views: 11856

Re: You Can Keep Your Choir

"All are welcome in our choir"....(as long as you are willing to follow our conductor. If not, we may have to ask you to leave. A choir must sing with unity or cannot function as a choir) Perhaps, but life is not meant to be lived under the constant control of a conductor. Wasn't that satan's plan?
by Notchet
Thu Feb 09, 2017 9:57 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Requesting a Visit
Replies: 17
Views: 14766

Re: Requesting a Visit

They gathered us all into one room. After the polite chit-chat, they brought up the subject of the lapsed temple recommends. There, in front of our children, they pointed out how we weren't measuring up. They then encouraged us to measure up. We were polite. The visit ended. That was the first time ...
by Notchet
Mon Jan 23, 2017 9:40 am
Forum: Support
Topic: "Real or Fake motives"
Replies: 4
Views: 3946

"Real or Fake motives"

Today we happened to go to SM...our first time in over a year.. only to find out it was Ward Conference. Ugh! In his concluding remarks the SP told the members they needed to be actively engaged in rescuing lost sheep (less-actives) and bringing them back into the fold. "Whether your motives are ...
by Notchet
Tue Dec 06, 2016 2:23 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: What's the deal with BYU Idaho?
Replies: 16
Views: 7322

Re: What's the deal with BYU Idaho?

I'm not sure, but BYU-I has always seemed much more draconian in the enforcement of their rules than BYU-U. What's sad is students, faculty, and staff really have no recourse if they happen to disagree with BYU-I's heavy-handed methods...other than suck it up, or leave the institution. All who work ...
by Notchet
Sat Dec 03, 2016 10:16 am
Forum: Support
Topic: "Nevermind, just Stay in the Boat"
Replies: 7
Views: 4545

"Nevermind, just Stay in the Boat"

What ever happened to "leaving the ninety and nine and going out in search of the one"? It no longer seems to apply to the "Ones" who chose to leave after peeking behind the curtain. Once TBMs find out the reason for our leaving is because of doubt, (or new knowledge) suddenly we become too leperous ...
by Notchet
Wed Nov 30, 2016 8:36 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: "We don't practice Mormonism anymore."
Replies: 14
Views: 8473

Re: "We don't practice Mormonism anymore."

"We are doing church on our own terms" works for us. Some say they wish they could do the same.
by Notchet
Tue Nov 15, 2016 8:59 am
Forum: Support
Topic: The 2030 LDS Bicentennial cometh...
Replies: 14
Views: 8465

Re: The 2030 LDS Bicentennial cometh...

Here are my temple related predictions: 1- All things strange and masonic will have been removed from the temple ritual. (handshakes, signs, tokens, washings and anointings, chantings) 2- White clothing will still be worn in the temple, minus the former temple garb. (caps, aprons, veils, robes, etc ...
by Notchet
Sat Nov 12, 2016 10:47 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: The 2030 LDS Bicentennial cometh...
Replies: 14
Views: 8465

The 2030 LDS Bicentennial cometh...

The church’s bicentennial is only 14 years away. What church practicies, policies, and demographics do you hope, expect, or predict will have changed by the time Mormons commemorate their bicentennial?
by Notchet
Mon Nov 07, 2016 10:09 am
Forum: Support
Topic: A Lose-Lose-Lose for the church
Replies: 12
Views: 7463

Re: A Lose-Lose-Lose for the church

Hmmm... Some UT polls and talking heads are saying McMullin has moved back into second to Trump in Utah. Might get interesting.
by Notchet
Thu Nov 03, 2016 9:26 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: A Lose-Lose-Lose for the church
Replies: 12
Views: 7463

Re: A Lose-Lose-Lose for the church

River Morgan wrote:So McMullen was winning in Utah simply because he is Mormon, then it was noted he has two mothers and five days later he is polling third. Utah!
I was not aware of McMullin's sudden drop in the state polls. Well said..."Utah!"
by Notchet
Thu Nov 03, 2016 2:17 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: November 5 Policy - How to publicly remember it?
Replies: 14
Views: 7901

Re: November 5 Policy - How to publicly remember it?

The only thing I have to offer is an anecdotal happening from my own life you might find interesting. My (LDS) DD and her same sex (LDS) partner (not in UT) recently befriended the local elders. They often pop in to just hang out, sometimes for several hours. When we visited our DD and her family ...
by Notchet
Thu Nov 03, 2016 9:36 am
Forum: Support
Topic: A Lose-Lose-Lose for the church
Replies: 12
Views: 7463

Re: A Lose-Lose-Lose for the church

This is a very left-wing site, but this article pretty much states what I'm talking about. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/mormons-consciences-have-put-white-evangelicals-to_us_5802d33de4b0985f6d15724c Full disclosure: I voted for Hillary. I liked and agreed with the Huffpost article ...
by Notchet
Wed Nov 02, 2016 8:41 am
Forum: Support
Topic: A Lose-Lose-Lose for the church
Replies: 12
Views: 7463

Re: A Lose-Lose-Lose for the church

Hi Notchet! I am curious though to know if there has been any direct influencing of the vote from the pulpit. Does anyone know? Hi SeeNoEvil...always good to hear from you. The only influencing I have seen or heard of is the traditional letter to members (5 Oct, 2016) encouraging members to vote ...
by Notchet
Tue Nov 01, 2016 3:07 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: A Lose-Lose-Lose for the church
Replies: 12
Views: 7463

A Lose-Lose-Lose for the church

It appears that no matter who wins Utah’s electoral votes, the church will look bad to the rest of the world. McMullin: A confirmation of the long held belief that Mormons vote for whomever the church tells them to. I would smile if McM carried 65% percent of the UT vote, which equals the a ...
by Notchet
Fri Oct 28, 2016 9:46 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Nice to meet you!
Replies: 6
Views: 5090

Re: Nice to meet you!

Good to see you posting again, SeeNoEvil. Hope you are well. The St. Judas' meetup is still going strong. Stop in if you are ever back in your former neck of the woods.
by Notchet
Wed Oct 26, 2016 7:53 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Still here...
Replies: 2
Views: 3234

Still here...

Hey y’all…’tis great to see NOM up and running again. Here is my updated introduction, as suggested. My LDS background: Multi-generation LDS, BIC, RM, MIT, BYU, HP…yadda, yadda… Once I retired, the church had no more control over my career or livelihood. (employment dependent upon having an ecclesias ...